Sunday, December 1, 2019

'Tis the Season


Welcome to December! May it be a good one.

The busyness of November is carrying into December with many different things going on.  I started my Aqua size class and thoroughly enjoyed it. It is only going to be 6 sessions long.  The class is really just to get you used to the type of exercise you could do in the pool so you can decide whether you want to continue on your own at a public pool.  The pool is heated and not too deep and the exercises are much different than what I’ve seen in most of the Aqua size classes organized by the community centers. Perfect for me.  So I’ll enjoy it while I can.



I’ve also been busy shopping for gifts for Christmas, graduation gifts, winter boots and a few casual and dressy clothes for the holidays. I’ve already been able to use much of what I bought and so that is great as I know the money has been well spent. 

I was invited to a friend’s convocation ceremony and spent almost a full day with him and his family at the convocation, taking photos afterward and joining at the Alumni Centre for cake and coffee.  Later we went to their home for tea and snacks, then they invited me (and a few others) to dinner at a fabulous African restaurant downtown called Simba's.  Some of you long time readers may remember that I took members of the Kenyan Boys Choir there several years ago when they were in town.  There are several African restaurants in town but I think the one downtown is best for consistency and the owner is very nice too.  The food was delicious as always.



My friend has been looking for a job the past weeks now that he has his Ph.D. in Linguistics. I was very pleased to hear he already has an interview lined up and pray it all works out for him. I've become very close to he and his family over the years that they've been in Canada and his wife and I try and get together as often as we can.  She is a wonderful woman who amazes me with her phenomenal energy.  She has a very kind heart and looks after her family and work, participates in community events, church and related activities and so on.  She is always looking to fulfill a need when people don't have family or friends here.  She will see a need and do something special for them like organize a bridal shower or a baby shower.  She is a darling and I don't know how she does it all.  In the new year she will be even busier as she will return to school part-time while continuing to work.

It’s also been busy with the missions in Kenya. My friend Eunice is still in hospital and has her ups and downs health wise. I thank God she is still with us and that her son watches over her and oversees every aspect related to her care.  We are still looking for a donor to help Ernest (the guy who was run down by a motor bike taxi) to start a small barber business and/or repair his humble home. We are also still investigating Alcohol Rehabilitation Programs to see if we can afford to sponsor a man named Charles to get treatment. The Alcohol Rehabilitation programs are very expensive especially as he needs at least 3 months in residence and another 6 months or so of follow up. If we cannot find an affordable program we will have to wait until we have the funds or until we can get someone who would step up to help him.  The Go Fund Me campaign link remains on the side bar for those who would like to contribute to any of these needs. I also continue to help Alvin with all aspects of finances (budgeting, budget forecasting, tracking spending, problem solving for needs) and some investigation into programs on offer here at the university. I do some preliminary research and he does the detail research in regards to graduate school here in Vancouver.

I have a lot of appointments coming up in the next while so I’m not sure how much I will be blogging for the rest of this month.  However I always make time to read and comment on other blogs as most of you will know.  My schedule is full up to the middle of December though mostly with things that have nothing to do with Christmas.  Then in mid-December a friend and I will attend Chantez Noel at one of the church's in the city.  We are both looking forward to it. We've already decided that next year if we are able we would like to splurge and go and see the concert called Winter Harp.  If you like you can google it on You Tube and see what it is all about. 

Yesterday I decided to pare back the schedule a bit in favour of getting more rest and to finish the year strong.  One of the things I want to do this week is to put up the Christmas tree and a few lights. My decorating is not over the top.  There will be just enough to add some sparkle and glow to my living space. In the meantime, I've got a  lot of gifts to prepare as I take them with me to dinner at a friend's house next weekend.  I can give out several gifts to various people I know will be there.  Otherwise it will be very difficult to deliver gifts before Christmas.  I also need to alter some of the clothing I purchased for my niece because she usually need sleeves and leg hems lifted.  I may actually deliver the gifts in person after Christmas which requires a short trip out of town. How I deliver will be decided based on time and energy after Christmas.



We are expecting snow. It may even arrive tonight and it has been super cold all this past week.  I'm well prepared this year with the addition of comfortable winter boots and my long faux fur coat.  I've had the coat for several years but seldom have a chance to wear it. It  only comes out on the very cold days when it isn't raining and I know I'm going to spend time outside.  It keeps me toasty warm.  I find it chilly indoors too.  I've got the heating on 24/7 which I never, ever do because of the very high cost of heating and electricity in general.  The rates have increased twice in the last 2 years and I'm keeping a very keen eye on things due to the significant increases in other costs (car insurance, strata fees, condo insurance and property taxes).  I also wear socks, slippers, puffer vest indoors or sit with the heating pad on. As the years go by I think more and more of moving to a warmer apartment or out of the city altogether. For now I am here because it is not only a lot of work to move but my city has the best access to medical services in the entire province and I would hate to lose that.  So far, I haven't seriously thought about a move but it comes to my mind every so often. Don't get me wrong.  I am grateful to have indoor heating. I just have to manage it properly to make it affordable.

For relaxation I'm reading books number 51 and 52 or watching recorded television programs (Dancing with the Stars, The Marylin Dennis Show, Y & R, New Amsterdam and whatever new and interesting series may be on) .  I have another few books in my reading pile but doubt I will finish them all before 2020 arrives.


Last night, in between running errands, I stopped at a new to me restaurant called Cafe D'Afrique, an Ethiopian/Eritrean restaurant. Since I had not been there before I decided on a combination dish in order to be able to sample as much variety as possible.  The main part of the dish (as you can see in the photo below) is beef  stew surrounded by rice, spinach and beet salad on far left and lentil stew on the far right. It is all served on a plate of injera bread and the small dish of rolled up things is more injera bread (a type of fermented bread).  I've been to Ethiopian restaurants before but this is the first time I had the food delivered on a regular plate.  It is also the first time I've had the beef stew.  Usually I order something called tibs which can be ordered in goat, beef and other meats. The beef stew and side dishes were very tasty.



Wishing you all a very beautiful season as you prepare for Christmas however humble or spectacular. 
May you have moments to pause and reflect on the reason for the season. 

I have been reminded so many times in the last few months to give thanks for all the many blessings I have and not to take even the simplest of things for granted. One of the many blessings I have is faithful blog readers who have become like friends.

I wish each you of you good health, love and happiness.


♥♥♥

17 comments:

Joanne Noragon said...

I must add both those books to my pile!

Red said...

You're busy. Being busy is good for us but we don't want to let things get too busy.

Joyful said...

You're right Red. I don't like being overly busy so every now and then I cut things out of the schedule and I do a lot of rearranging since I need to pace myself.

stardust said...

Dear Joyful – I’m so grateful to you. Since you stopped by my blog for the first time, you often have visited my blog and left comment almost right after I posted. In the blogsphere, I consider myself a reactive person.
Things get super busy in December, but I’d like to slow down. Choosing and buying Christmas present require lots of energy. Anyway, being busy is not bad at all as long as you’re healthy. Talking of electricity fee, the rise is inevitable here mainly due to tax rise. I usually set the heater “eco mode”. I wear very warm clothes with “heat technology”. I’m keen on utility fee in general, especially telecommunication fee. There’s nothing wrong about being thrifty. Right?

Yoko

Joyful said...

Dear Yoko, it was lovely to read your comment (and also your latest post). I very much enjoy your beautiful photography and learning about where you live. You are right that buying Christmas presents requires lots of energy and a lot of time to think about what to buy for people that will fit within the budget and still be appreciated. I agree that being busy is not all bad as long as there is balance. I also agree that it is a good thing to be thrifty. It is one of my great pleasures in life to save money so I can spend it on other important things. All the best in December. xx

Joyful said...

Let me know how you enjoy them Joanne.

eileeninmd said...

Hello, I know someone who is also taking the water aerobics, it is like a therapy for her pain. I hope it helps you! The holiday time is a busy time, but it should be more like fun than work. I am not putting up many decorations and my only presents will be to my son and his wife. Keep warm and safe. Have a happy day, wishing you a great new week!

Jeanie said...

It looks like life is very nice right now. Such a fun occasion with the gradate and of course the holidays, good books, just much here to so enjoy. I wonder if that snow came? Your coat sounds lovely and the food from the restaurant sounds wonderful and looks fabulous! It's such a busy season but I'm so glad you are here!

Mari said...

You are so busy, I don't know how you have time to read!
I'm sorry it's been so cold. I've been wearing extra layers, warm slippers and sitting under a blanket too. I hate being cold! (I hate high heating bills too) :)
You are a blessing to me, and to so many others. Your care and concern shows up here, loud and clear!
If you aren't back before Christmas, I wish you a wonderful season, filled with the love He first showed to us.

Natalia said...

Those classes sounds so great! I am also planning things for Christmas, but I usually buy everything online, I am thinking about a lot of things to cook, though☺ Have a lovely day☺

jabbott said...

Hi Penny I love your new logo for your blog. I'm glad you are enjoying your new aqua classes and are fit and well.you sound so much more organized than me for Christmas xxx

Joyful said...

That's great to hear Eileen. I'm really, really enjoying the classes and wish I could go there on a regular basis but they only give you a short amount of time to learn the exercises then you find your own pool. I agree that the holidays should be more like fun than work and I only do what I enjoy though it can still be a little hectic at the last moments of preparation. I think I enjoy thinking of buying presents the most as it helps me really think about people and what they might like. I also like seeing the lights at night but I don't like the decorating part, lol. It's warmed up here because the rain started. I'm not sure what happened to the snow but I'm glad it didn't arrive yet. Have a great week!

Joyful said...

I'm enjoying life and wish I had more hours to enjoy more but will try not to get greedy, lol. I always have to read my books or go to movies. That is what I enjoy doing most between all the other activities. The snow hasn't come yet but I ordered yet another set of winter boots. I have to stop now as I really probably have too many casual boots and no dressy ones yet. I'm finally finding shoes and boots in the proper width and so I'm comfortable for the first time in a long time.

Joyful said...

Hi Mari, I am busy, in a good way. I always make time to read otherwise I wouldn't read much. I have to treat it like something that must get done and setting a challenge for myself for the year helps with moving me forward. I only planned to read 25 books this year so the rest is a nice bonus and I am only reading a reasonable amount each week. I'm glad you and I are kindred spirits, not only as believers but also with staying warm and being frugal. Thanks so much for your faithful blogging friendship. You are a dear. Merry Christmas to you and your household too if I am not on line much before Christmas.

Joyful said...

Thank you Natalia. The classes are wonderful mostly because the exercises are not that hard but they are effective and the water is warm, not cold. Heaven :-) I also buy a lot on line but mostly for myself. For others I go to a few stores that I know and like and sometimes find something on line too. Enjoy your brainstorming around cooking and have a wonderful Christmas season.

Joyful said...

Hi Joy, I'm glad you like my new header. I really got a good photo of the rainbow one day. It is hard for me to see a rainbow let alone get a good picture so I'm using now. I hope to write you a snail mail soon. xx

Lowcarb team member said...

I've not tried water aerobics, but I have a friend that goes to weekly sessions and she thoroughly enjoy it.

Wishing you a Happy December …

All the best Jan

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