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Welcome once again to Toni Taddeo's Tuesday 4 where we give you 4 questions to ponder and blog about each week. The details of our lives are 'news'.
1. Do you or did you ever have a nickname? Care to share?
Yes, I've had several nicknames over the years. These were usually given to me by my maternal uncles and my maternal grandfather. One I can share is 'jawbreaker eyes'. My uncle called me that because back then I had very large, dark eyes. He thought they resembled a popular candy made in those days called jawbreaker. The candy was round, large, very hard & tasted like liquorice if I recall correctly. Sadly, my eyes are no longer so large. The candy also seems to have disappeared from the marketplace. Update: I did a google search and apparently they still make and sell this candy somewhere (probably the USA) and it comes in different flavours not just liquorice.
2. Did you ever have a penpal or have you chatted online with someone you don't know in person?
Yes, I've had several pen pals over the years whom I've never met. I've also chatted with several people on line that I've never met and likely never will. The time I shared snail mail with a pen pal was when I was a young adult. His name was Leczek and I 'met' him through a local friend who worked at the university when I was a student. I can't recall why I started corresponding with Leczek but I think my university friend thought it would be a good idea. Leczek was Polish and lived in Poland with his wife and 2 children. My memory is hazy but I think Leszek and his wife were both teachers. I do remember that they were both deeply fascinated with Native Americans.
This interest is what later made me back off from corresponding with Lezsek. I was very uncomfortable with his views of Native Americans and his insistence on seeing them as historical, noble savages rather than the contemporary peoples they are today. No matter what I shared with him, he and his wife refused to see Native Americans as contemporary beings with a rich history.
In many parts of Europe, primarily Germany and Poland, there are people who romanticize Native Americans and emulate their way of life before and during early contact. They even have friendship clubs were they get together each summer to camp and recreate the lives they think Native Americans live/d including their way of dressing, dancing and so on. They seem to have gotten their information from the writings of the Eastern German novelist, Karl May.
Karl May never actually ever met a Native American and never travelled to America but he wrote many novels about the life of Native Americans as he imagined it to be. He is well known and still today people believe whole heartedly in what he wrote. I met some of these people when I travelled to Germany and I when I visited the Karl May museum in Dresden, Germany. Anyway, the correspondence with Leczek was interesting while it lasted as I also learned a bit about Poland and the life there as well as his family and how they lived. I almost forgot that I currently have a friend who lives in Nottingham, England and we've corresponded by snail mail for several years. We've never met in person but if I get to England there may be an opportunity to meet. My friend's name is Joy and she's been going through a lot of trials over the past year when she lost her husband through a bitter divorce and she also lost 3 family members to health complications.
Tony is the last person I chatted with on line and whom I've never met. He's from Nigeria and when I met him he owned a women's accessories shop selling things like shoes and handbags though I'm not sure if he still has it. Recently he got married and had a child so we haven't had an in-depth talk in some time and likely won't.
Though I've enjoyed having these pen pals, it isn't likely that I'll be chatting with more strangers on line. It's a lot of work to sift through their peoples intentions. I no longer have an interest in doing that, nor do I have the time to do it. I almost forgot that I have another friend who I met on line when she lived in Spain. Enza is an Italian who has lived in Mallorca, the Netherlands & even New York City during the time I've known her. Now that her children are grown she lives in Dubai, UAE. She and I keep in touch by chat and voice messages, not usually through live phone calls due to the time differences and schedules. She is a dear friend though we've never met. We talk about meeting but so far we haven't done it.
3. Do you read a newspaper ? How do you keep up with the latest news?
I no longer read a physical newspaper but from time to time, I read some on line newspapers. Mostly I catch 'breaking news' on Instagram (IG), You Tube and local news broadcasts. IG seems to be a good way to see what the latest breaking news especially since I no longer use the site formerly known as Twitter. Since Elon Musk bought the company and called it X, I no longer follow.
4. Is there any news in your life lately?
There isn't much news of interest to share. I'm still in the middle of renovation chaos. It's primarily the bathrooms that are being partially renovated and a few minor changes in the kitchen and the open area of the condo. I've learned to live with the chaos but I can't wait until everything is completed and some sense of order is restored.
I also want to update that the MRI test I had had several weeks ago didn't reveal anything of concern. There was just one small issue that my doctor already knew about and which doesn't require any further follow up. Thank you to those of you who remembered to pray for me when I mentioned it in this space prior to the MRI appointment.