Hello friends and fellow bloggers,
I captured this peaceful night sky last Monday. I meant to photograph the pastel sky at sunset but wasn't quite quick enough to do it.
Hello friends and fellow bloggers,
Welcome friends!
This week's Tuesday 4 in memory of our friend Toni Taddeo is from Mary who blogs at Visits With Mary and it's all about the month of May. Thanks Mary!
Hello May
1. May’s First Glimpse — What is the very first thing you notice or feel when May arrives each year?
The first thing I notice is more sunshine and more light. I also seem to have more energy to tackle larger tasks around the house.
2. Simple May Joys — What small pleasures do you look forward to in May — flowers, breezes, routines, or traditions?
I look forward to it all, more greenery, leaves on deciduous trees, flowers, anything that grows outside. I look forward to fresh air by opening windows and more walks in the sunshine before the days get too hot.
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| Home garden patio in sunshine (2025) 3. May Memories — Do you have a favorite May memory from childhood, family life, or recent years? |
When I was a child May was still a cold month, school was still in session and we could even have freak snowstorms in June though it was rare. All this to say I don't have any favourite memories from the month of May. However, May is my birth month and every month thereafter we have a family birthday to celebrate until October. After that I look forward to Thanksgiving & Christmas. In May of each year, I mainly look forward to these events involving loved ones. If we are together we have family dinners to celebrate with cake and take away meal. If we are not together, I always try to remember their birthday with cards, phone calls and sometimes gifts. It also seems that many of my close friends celebrate birthdays in May. This keeps me busy remembering them with gifts, cards & lunches where possible. In fact, right now I'm behind schedule in remembering the birthdays of 2 out of town friends who celebrate their birthdays in a few days. So you know what I'll be doing tomorrow!
4. May Intentions — What gentle goals or hopes do you carry into this new month?
To get the community garden consistently watered and the patio garden planted and tended.
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| A recent evening at the community plot (2026) |
I like the idea of sitting outside more often this year and hope to do so on the patio. To create time for this relaxation, a lot of work is going on inside and outside to deep clean, & get large tasks out of the way. The balcony pavers, railings and furniture have all been deep cleaned, windows are being cleaned inside and outside, the carpeting indoors is being given a thorough cleaning and various other seasonal tasks are being done.
April and May are always busy months with the gardens that need planting. It's also the time when so many other things gear up and/or need doing before I can relax and enjoy the summer.
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| Home garden patio at sunset (2025) |
If you've read this far, thank you. I appreciate it. Have a wonderful week.
Welcome back to Toni Taddeo's Tuesday 4 where we ask just 4 questions each week to give you something to blog about, something to think about and a reason to visit other blogs!
So how is summer going for you? Let's talk about
it.....
1. How has summer been so far? Has it been easy or hard or are things moving along as usual? Is the weather getting you down or are you enjoying it so far?
Summer is going so-so. I would say things and are a bit hard since plans small and large aren't really going smoothly but I press on. That's the only way.
I'm dealing with a lot of needs around the condo building and also in my unit. Most of the items are things that the strata management company needs to take care of but my part is paying for it or being around to permit access for the various workers that are coming. When you need to provide access typically you are captive to someone else's schedule.
There is a lot more going on right now than is the norm so it's a good thing I haven't planned a summer vacay. I don't generally leave my keys with someone else while I'm gone unless it's a family member and we don't have a resident caretaker.
Right now we're going through a bit of a warm spell. We haven't really had high temperatures to date but July is usually the hottest month of the year. I'm grateful that it hasn't been too warm and uncomfortable to date but when it is we rely on fans and open windows.
2. What have you been doing this summer? Even the little mundane things count.
I've mostly been dealing with condo stuff and also making small and slow progress on my reorganizing efforts. I'm keeping up with the cleaning, recycling and household routines. It's all rather boring but it gives me a lot of satisfaction to be able to keep up with things or to make a bit of progress on the bigger things I want to do. I've also been taking care of a lot of paperwork and medical stuff. Not just for me but also for a niece who is going through mobility issues and needs some big medical equipment purchases.
3. What are you going to do? Any plans? What interests you this summer?
I would dearly love to take a trip. But it's out of the question. There are costly renovations that need to be paid for in early 2026 and we are saving up for that even though we don't know what the anticipated bill is yet. We won't know that until February 2026.
As much as I'd really love to travel out of country all the problems around the world right now make me feel it is not safe. Anything can happen in an instant and also right now there have been so many flights being cancelled all around the world and even right here at home. I've also been looking at travels within my own country but the cost is very high. It's one of the reasons Canadians travel abroad quite often but also the timing isn't quite right with everything going on. I want to be able to travel with my dear husband and his schedule is not permitting it right now. Nor is mine with all the condo business that requires attention.
I have some relatives that are supposed to visit me this summer. One has called to delay her trip - again to the end of the summer. I hope she makes it as we like to travel around the city and see the sites while the weather is good. Two other relatives said they were visiting but they didn't say exactly when they were coming. I haven't seen them in at least 5 years so I hope they can make it. They live rather far from me. Actually all of my closer relatives live a long distance from me so it is hard to see one another very often.
I used to do a lot of things in the summer like attend festivals and exhibitions. Now that I'm older I just like to take it easy at home and avoid the crowds and the hot weather. I'll spend time relaxing through reading and hobbies, spend a bit if time catching up with a few friends and trying to keep the 2 gardens blooming.
4. It's been hot in most of the country How are you weathering the heat ? What are your ideas for staying cool in the hottest weather of summer.
We really haven't had excess heat here in Vancouver for which I'm grateful. I hope that the temperatures will continue to remain bearable. To help stay cool on very hot days, I drink a lot of water, sometimes a bit of watered down and very cold juices, use cold towels on my neck, keep the blinds drawn and the fans going. When the temperature cools a bit I open the windows to let in the fresh air.
Welcome back to Toni Taddeo's Tuesday 4.
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| Warmer days |
Spring has come and Summer is approaching. Linda says the temps in Florida are already in the 90s and humidity through the roof. But days are growing longer for everyone. How does it affect you?
Hello friends and fellow bloggers,
I hope you are all well and fine. I'm still keeping busy here at the homestead. This will be a long post so settle in with a refreshing drink and relax awhile.
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I saw that the building contractors seemed to have packed up and finished with their patio reconstruction. However there was an issue I had been raising with them all summer to no avail. Apparently they said it was due to the instructions they had received from the engineers. I kept trying anyway. Once they completed the work but still hadn't dealt with my issue (actually an issue for most of the owners but no one else seems to have raised it), I called the building management company and explained the situation. The management then spoke to the engineer and I couldn't believe that within the hour, the contractors were here having a look at the issue and brainstorming how to resolve it. We just had a long weekend so no work happened until today but I am pleased the work was done. It isn't perfect but it is much better than it was and I'm satisfied. Moreover the other owners' balconies are getting the same solution. When I spoke to the management, I told them that we owners had spent a considerable amount of money to get the patios redone and by leaving them the way the engineer recommended, we would likely be having to spend even more money in the not too distant future. I had to emphasize that because I think there was some misunderstanding that I was merely raising a design or aesthetic idea. Anyway that is done. Over the past week or two, I have also purchased new patio chair pads and a new patio umbrella. I also had time to wash the patio doors and all the windows and sills from the outside and move or position all the patio planters. It's doubtful that I'll plant anything in the planters until next spring. I will try to find some suitable greenery to plant this fall if there is anything at the nursery that fit within our new planting guidelines. If not, I'll have to wait until next year.
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| Before table and chairs were washed. |
One thing that has added to my already busy schedule is potluck dinners every week at the church. I don't need to take something every week but as the church gathering is not usually that large, I have taken something for several weeks in a row. Last Sunday my contribution was dessert. I was going to take dessert bars because they are easy to make and easy to transport on the bus but in the end I decided to take a reduced sugar version of Peach Cobbler and a version of Bliss Balls which I made up with ingredients on hand. Both were quite good and a hit with people who attended. Now I'm taking some time off from baking and will take either a main course or a salad for the potluck at the end of September.
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| Bliss balls made with dates, shredded coconut, walnuts, peanut butter and cocoa. |
| Reduced sugar Peach Cobbler I also used ground muesli mix instead of flour |
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| I've already enjoyed wearing this one. DH liked it too! |
So much of the past few months has been all about work, some of it very unexpected like the leak several floors above me and the ensuing damage in the master bedroom. It's meant a lot of extra work for me in so many ways. To take a break from it all, I've done a fair bit of reading and watching the boob tube or the You Tube. These are easy ways to take a break when one is tired of work.
The reading statistics thus far
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| The book on the Vagus Nerve. |
Hello friends and fellow bloggers,
I hope you are all well.
It's Friday and I'm looking forward to relaxing a bit. I'm going to the Rolling Stones concert tonight. The ticket was my Christmas gift from my younger brother. Wow, I haven't been to a concert in decades and things have changed dramatically. I cannot even take a purse into the venue. I could use a fanny pack but it ended up in storage when the contents of the master bedroom were moved out a few weeks ago. I just found this out yesterday when I decided to read all the rules and policies about 'bags'. I almost skipped over that part but I'm glad I didn't because I wouldn't want my purse being confiscated. Anyway I'll have to really pare down and make sure I wear clothing with pockets. That's a tall order too given we are suddenly experiencing a heat wave.
I'm not going to let these challenges get to me. I'll probably be the 'lightest' I've ever been going anywhere in recent history, lol because I can't take much into the venue. That might be a good thing. I'll take an empty plastic bottle to fill with water, my wallet and my phone. These are a must because you need a debit card or a credit card. It's a cashless venue. Also you need your phone with the Ticketmaster app so you can scan your ticket. No paper tickets or screenshot tickets are allowed. Things have really changed a lot for those of us who never go to sporting events or big concerts but if you've been to these big events lately then it's all common knowledge for you.
I went out for some errands on Thursday. It was very hot and there was not a cloud in the sky. Here are a few photos for you.
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| A fabulous meal. |
It's been awhile since I participated in Skywatch Friday.
These photos were all taken in downtown Vancouver, BC on Wednesday, July 12, 2023.
The weather here has been very hot and we are in drought at a Level 4. I learned that on the news recently. Here is a map of British Columbia. All of the areas in red are at drought Level 4.
I wish you a wetter summer or winter wherever you are living and that you stay safe.
Welcome, it's Tuesday 4 time. Annie keeps the meme going in memory of her friend Toni Taddeo who really enjoyed her blogs.
The Summer solstice arrived and some got hot weather and some got chill and rain. But summer is the time for holidays or vacations, summertime activities and being outdoors more. It's also a time, like winter, for complaints and we realize that people in Texas, Arizona and Florida stay inside in summer.
1. How is summer treating you so far this year? Could things improve? How do you make summer fun in your neck of the woods?
This year is a rather different summer for me. Normally I try to get out and enjoy some events and outdoor venues as well as take a few short trips a few hours north, see some local friends and try and stay cool. This summer we had a very hot start to the season but just prior to and after the intense heat, I've been consistently busy with small home improvements. In addition to the usual daily routines, appointments and continual decluttering process, I do a little on various projects almost every day when I'm up to it. I'm finding my schedule very full this summer with all the above, health related things like lab tests (lots of those, and a few doctor appointments. In between I'm reading, crafting and spending time with friends. I'm also clearing out all the stuff from the patio because the patios will be totally redone in my building. They should have started work already so they are behind schedule since we don't even know what the financial costs are yet. The owners have to vote on the work plan at a special meeting too.
Looking back at my blog posts I see that I began home DIYs way back in August 2022. Wow! I think it has all really been much more work than I originally planned. All of it is for the purpose of making my small home work much better for us than it did before and making more space by getting rid of a lot of things. I'm spending all my 'free time' doing projects so now and then I take a break and do something like get a massage or a mani-pedi. I simply haven't had much time for blogging though. I hope to improve on that but not quite sure when I'll be up to doing more of it.
As I go along I see something else that needs or improving. While I get rid of things I am also adding a purchases here and there. I'm trying hard not to buy anything that isn't strictly necessary because it's probably much better to wait until I've fully decluttered. (Does one ever reach the point of full decluttering. I know that decluttering is a constant process but I'd like to get to the point of just maintaining rather than doing big clear outs.) Things always seem to crop up. For example, a knob broke off the top of a perfectly good floor lamp. I wasn't planning on buying any more lamps so now I had to add it to the list. Of course I couldn't find something similar at a price I was willing to pay so ended up ordering something else altogether. It will be a few more weeks before it arrives. Only then will I see if it works in the space. I did consider repairing the lamp but the piece that broke felling into the lamp and is no longer accessible.
2.We give you magic powers! You can change the climate, the surroundings, even your house and anything you like. Tell us what you are doing to make your summer or your entire year better..... GO!
Oh goody! If I had magic powers I would have all my DIY projects done in a flash and done just the way I want them without having to try several times to get the project 'just right'. I'd also like to expand my space by about half of what I have now and I'd love to have a dog and a cat.
In the not too distant future I expect it is going to get very hot again. I don't enjoy the heat so I'd want to have more moderate temperatures so everyone can get outside and enjoy nature. I'd also like to take some day trips or overnight trips with DH so he can see more of this beautiful country.
Another thing I would do with magic powers is take another trip. I'd love to go somewhere different but also back to Kenya.
3. The puppy on the boat at the right is your new friend. He wants a name. What name will you give him and would you like to be in that picture (if you can't sail we will provide someone for you!)
I've never been on a sailboat but it looks like fun with the wind blowing back one's hair as they sail across the ocean. I'd name the puppy Jerry in honour of my very first puppy. Like most puppies he was very sweet and loving.
4. It's friendship potluck day at your house this month. Everyone is coming. Please assign us what dishes each of us are to bring to make for a great day. (By the way, you needn't use names. Just name some dishes you would like people to bring along),
A few dishes to bring, potato salad, fruit salad, water melon, grapes and cherries, corn on the cob and various meats for the grill as well as buns. Rotisserie chicken is always great too. These foods are more for a summer picnic which everyone loves. One thing I used to love was a refreshing punch a friend would make. I can't remember quite what went into it but basically orange juice, pineapple and a fizzy drink like ginger ale. That is probably far too much sugar for me now so I'd have much with a lot of ice.
Hello friends and fellow bloggers,
Happy September!
It seems the main part of summer is over. For me the best part of summer is in September because the weather cools down quite noticeably. There are only 22 days left before summer ends and fall arrives. Fall is one of my favourite seasons because of it's beauty and crisp, fresh air but unfortunately is such a brief time before heavy rains arrive and we prepare for winter.
Summer arrived somewhat late in BC this year. It rained a lot for the first part of the season but made up for it in July and August. On the last day of the month of August it was still blazing hot. My garden has been pretty much done for the last week. I probably didn't water it enough at some critical moments of the season. It's always a challenge for me and I can sometimes miss a day here and there when it is critical to give the earth some sustenance through watering. I'm still pleased that the blooms lasted up until about a week ago and some of the container blossoms are still hanging in there.
Instead of gardening my main focus in the early part of summer was helping Jonah get situated to his new life and our life together in this city and country which is new for him. There was a lot for him to do and we also tried to have a little outing here and there for relaxation. Then came August and I decided it was time for me do as much as I could to catch up with much needed DIY's around the house and continue with the major decluttering I've been working on for some time.
The DIYs have mostly been a learning experience.To be honest I don't have much patience for it. I made a mess of a few things which had to be undone and then re-done. I'm not finished yet and will continue working until at least the official end of summer. Even simple things can be a bit confusing if you've never done them before. I've been relying on You Tube for tutorials for almost everything. Thank goodness I can turn to You Tube.
On the last day of August, I remembered my dear late mom who would have turned 89. I miss her but know I will see her again one day. Also on this day I received a card from a friend in Colorado. I couldn't believe it when I opened the envelope to discover a Christmas card written back in December. I understood from the note that my friend and her husband have been temporarily living in another state so they can look after her mom. I'm hoping by the time I write back she will still be at the temporary address.
I have the sense that I'm turning the corner on the long list of DIYs I've been working on. Today I received a shower curtain and the new doorknob for the master bathroom. I didn't waste any time in steaming the wrinkles out of the shower curtain and putting it up. I absolutely love and I intend to keep it. It means I'll be returning the creamy white waffle weave curtain I bought last week. The off-white colour was too 'yellow' and clashed with the natural white paint colour on the bathroom walls. Later in the day I'll return the items to the stores and on Saturday I hope to repair the small holes I made in the door and touch up paint before I install the new door knob. The rest of the weekend I'll give the bathroom a thorough cleaning and see what else I can declutter before moving on to other projects. If you are interested in seeing what else has been accomplished you can click here.
Until we meet again on blogger, stay safe. 💗
Welcome back to Toni's Tuesday 4! We need
to enjoy every season to the fullest even those of us for whom summer is not the favourite season.
1. What do you like to do in the summer?
Sad to say that summer is not my favourite season. Primarily because it is too hot. So what I like to do to avoid heat is to stay indoors and sit as still and as quiet as possible. It's my time for watching television, reading and doing slow housework. When I have more time I like to go to the beach and have a nice walk to enjoy the ocean breezes and spectacular scenes.
Summer is also usually the time I enjoy having a visitor or two but the last few years this didn't happen. Hopefully next year. This year I've been spending a lot of time downsizing and doing small DIY projects so I can enjoy the months ahead.
2. What is your favorite summertime food and beverage?
My favourite summertime food is probably a well done cheeseburger with potato salad and a very cold lemonade with ice (not too sweet) or a iced coca cola with lemon juice. Oh, and let me not forget many varieties of ice cream and fruits, especially watermelon to quench the thirst. In former days I enjoyed having a Mr. Misty Float from the Dairy Queen. I had a few this summer but now I find them too sweet and tart at the same time.
3. How do you beat the heat?
I beat the heat by sitting indoors at home or in an air conditioned coffee shop. When I go outdoors I tend to walk in the shaded areas as the sun is too hot for me.
4. What do you really like about the summer season?
Hello folks and blogger friends,
I hope you are all having a wonderful summer to date. It certainly is different from the last few years in many ways. I'm thankful to have the freedom to go out and about more than the previous years. But I didn't get a chance to go out of town for several years now. This year was no exception. Even though restrictions were mostly lifted, I really don't care to travel right now and contend with all the travel/transportation delays and related issues.
We've had a heat wave for much of (July and ) August. Even when the posted weather has been in the lower 20s Celsius, it has still felt sweltering. Even Jonah who is used to the heat and dry areas in Kenya has commented about how hot it has been here. At last we had a dip in temperatures today and a sprinkling of rain. It wasn't a lot of rain but combined with lower temperatures it made all the walking I did today much more bearable.
I had to go deep into downtown Vancouver today to the Purolator service center to return a few Amazon parcels. Normally I send items back through the post but these items had to be returned by Purolator. It was very convenient to get to the center by bus as it let me off across the street. I thought I would return straight home and the bus stop was right outside the center's door. However when I got to the bus stop there was a sign saying one had to catch a bus at Burrard Street. That was a lot of walking for me especially since my knees aren't fully rehabilitated. Fortunately I managed to do what I needed to do.
After I finished downtown, I did more errands in my neighbourhood. I was shocked at how many people were out and about. There were lines of people everywhere waiting to get into virtually every single restaurant and drinking establishment Of course it is Friday and many people go out on Friday nights but tonight it was noticeably busier than usual. I don't know if it was because the weather was cooler and more comfortable or if suddenly people are realizing that the end of summer is almost upon us and they're trying to soak up every minute left of it. It's probably a bit of both. It was also very busy with tourists downtown though it doesn't seem so in the photos. It was nice to see so many visitors walking and enjoying the sites.
The photos I'm sharing are from downtown Vancouver in the city's West End Coal Harbour area. For most of the day the sky was a very dull gray. The sun came out around 6 p.m. but I couldn't stop to take photos.
Thank you for stopping by and have a great weekend.
Joining in with Skywatch Friday
Hello friends and fellow bloggers, Today I'm sharing a collage of skies overhead on Wednesday and Thursday. We've had a bit of rain...