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Hello friends,
Many of you have followed me for some time and though I describe my blog as living frugally, much of what I post about is implied frugality rather that statements about how I action frugality.
I thought today it would be interesting to write about some of the ways I relax and enjoy myself without breaking the bank.
Like many of you, I have limited free time but I do have a few activities up my sleeve to keep me busy when I have some free moments here and there.
Reading
One of the things I love to do and which costs me next to nothing is reading. You may find it hard to believe, but when I started this blog back in 2007, I couldn't read an entire page. My concentration had taken a nose dive due to illness. I also suffered a lot of fatigue and could hardly do anything which required more than a minute or so of sustained action or concentration. Though I have come a long way since then, chronic fatigue and a few other ailments still hamper what I can do and the consistency with which I can do it. The good news is that I've been setting reading goals each year for about 15 years. In the beginning I had to force myself to read more than a page and whatever I read I didn't remember but I kept going. Today I regularly set reading goals which vary from year to year. I often say I'm going to read less and end up reading far more than I intended. It's actually a good strategy for me as it puts less pressure on me to 'perform'.
This year my reading goal was 50 books. I have reached that goal and have read 52 books to date. My new goal is 20,000 pages which will likely be another 3 books (I'm currently at 19,120 pages) which I'll easily do before the end of the year. I got the idea of setting a page goal from my blogging friend, Jeanie at The Marmalade Gypsy. I think it's a fantastic idea and I've used it as my target in previous years whenever I felt I could devote more time to reading.
How I make it frugal
In times gone by I bought a lot of books and magazines to the point where the books completely filled 2 large bookcases, several drawers, covered a few flat surfaces and were stacked on the floor in parts of my home. Obviously I had far too many books for my home and these have now been reduced during my ongoing decluttering and downsizing project. I still have a lot more to declutter but the next bits will be harder because they are reference materials as opposed to reading novels. These days I borrow most of the novels I read through my local library. From time to time, I purchase books from the thrift store if I really want it or it is a good price. Even the thrift store prices are getting far too high around here.
In a bid to keep down the clutter, I also now donate the books through my local Freecycle website or donate them back to a local charity shop for resale. This works for me to ensure I don't add even more clutter as I work to downsize. I only like to read current issues of magazines I like so I don't borrow or reach them at the library. I browse the occasional magazine at the supermarket and pharmacy and buy one from time to time if I like what I see when I browse. Usually a spring or fall edition suits me.
Crochet
I taught myself to crochet from a little book that my mother owned. She didn't crochet herself but she had every intention so she had the right supplies for the day when she might make time to learn. I think The first thing I made from a pattern in the book was a doily. I had no idea that it wasn't a beginner's project, lol. I remember the day very well. I wasn't feeling that well and was staying home from school. I was up by myself very early in the morning. I sat under the dining table with the pattern book and supplies. A blanket was draped over the dining table to make a sort of 'tent' that my younger siblings had been playing under. We had seen this tent idea on the Mr. Dressup show, a Canadian children's show hosted by the late Ernie Coombs. My siblings and I used to love Mr. Dressup. Anyway, I was under that table trying to be as quiet as a mouse and concentrating on figuring out how to read the pattern whilst using tiny little thread, looping it with a tiny little hook. I was also being quiet so as not to wake anyone. It was painstaking work for unaccustomed fingers so my tension was tighter than it needed to be but after that project, I fell in love with crochet. I like making doilies best, but sadly most people don't really use doilies anymore. I love it when I travel to Kenya and I see that a lot of women (and men) there that still love crocheted items.
Here is the latest doily I've made. I think I'll send it to a friend in England because she also loves crochet.
I also love to crochet afghans and have made a lot of them over the past several years. All of them have been given away as gifts to family and friends.
Here is another blanket called African Flower Hexagon
I was never a good sewer in high school. I had fumble fingers and my machine stitching was never that neat. It didn't help that one of my best friends had near perfection in sewing class. In fact, she had top grades in virtually every class but it was her sewing skills that amazed me most because she was just so naturally able to sew well. Despite not measuring up to my friend, whatever I learned in sewing class stayed with me throughout the years and helps me to this day. I am grateful to have had at least a bit of instruction since my late mom never had any instruction. Mother was also a gifted seamstress through sheer determination and natural ability. Somehow she just figured everything out on her own and I marvelled at her sewing ability. I would say she was as good as my classmate. My mom was my inspiration to keep at it though I can't say she really encouraged me with her words. She never said anything much about my sewing except to critique what wasn't quite right (she was a perfectionist after all). But I think she was quietly proud of me many years later because I had to begin making most of her clothing and she really liked whatever I made for her. I took great care to try to make simple dresses, tops and skirts in colours and fabrics that I knew she would like. She loved clothing, dressing up, looking good and getting compliments. She got a ton of compliments on her outfits at the care home where she lived in her later years.
These days I don't sew that much but I'm planning to do more in future. I just don't quite know when I will begin. I made a small start this year by making this summer top with a fabric called double gauze. It actually is a bit hard to work with due to it's fraying nature. Since I don't own a serger it means twice the sewing time to finished the seams. But I was pleased to discover that the top was really nice for wearing on a hot summer day so I went and purchased more of the fabric to make something else, possibly a dress.
A summer top for me |
Pillowcases for my niece |
There are many ways to make sewing more frugal. Otherwise it can be an expensive hobby. Firstly, one needs a sewing machine which can be an expensive outlay. I have my own expensive machine and also 2 other machines, one which I purchased and one which I inherited. I do not own a serger and I'm not likely going to buy one.
I know people who want to learn to sew or they are beginners and don't own a machine. They put feelers out in the community for a donated sewing machine or they buy an inexpensive one at the second hand store or even at big box stores like Wal-Mart.
Fabric can also be expensive. I purchased a fair bit of fabric over the years and most of it on sale. I go to the main fabric store in town where they have a variety of price points. I still have a lot of fabric on hand and most of it will be used for quilting projects. You can also get fabric from time to time on sites like Freecycle (so the fabric is free but you have no choice of what kind or what colour). You can also buy clothing second hand and cut it up into fabric pieces. Unless you have a long skirt or a dress your fabric output will be on the smaller side. You can also buy second hand clothing and remake them into something you like better. This is called upcycling. If you are like me, you probably prefer to buy new fabric at reduced pricing, to make sure you get the colours and amounts you need.
V-neck top and skirt for mom |
Round neck top and skirt for mom |
I made mother's clothing by adapting various dresses and skirts I owned and making them larger for her comfort in a wheelchair and her size.
Simple dress made for mom |
Quilting
Quilting is something I'd been wanting to do for some time. I finally took a one day class to make my first quilt. I wanted to make it in time for my mother's first days in the long-term care home. I really enjoyed the experience and made a few more quilts after that.
Crazy quilt (in center of photo) made for my mom (my first quilt). |
Wizard of Oz quilt made for my niece |
Quilt made from mom's fabric scraps. She used it for a lap quilt. |
A made up quilt pattern for my nephew using scraps of mom's fabric. |
Another quilt made for mom. I love the sunflower fabric. |
Hi Friends and welcome back to Toni Taddeo's Tuesday 4 where we are given 4 questions each week to ponder and answer. It also gives you a chance to see how other Bloggers feel about things and an opportunity to make new friends.
This week we are talking about art.
1. Are you artistic in any way and if so, how so? Knitting, crochet, drawing, painting, writing lovely word art, home décor, lovely meals? There are many ways to be artistic.
I've never considered myself an artist as in painting or drawing. I do however use my hands in other ways that I enjoy such as knitting, crocheting, sewing, a bit of home decor. Oh and don't let me forget photography. I also like to cook but only from time to time. I took up many of these activities out of necessity or boredom rather than having a great affinity for them.
2. Does any art hang on your walls or grace your tables or shelves at home? How about your front door or windows. What about your yard?
I have a number of art works on my wall, some of which are unique: African women carrying baskets on their heads (done in cloth and framed), a detailed black and white print of a drawing of a Navajo couple in a wagon. It was done by an American artist who had lived amongst the Navajo peoples for many years. I have another framed print of a North American Indian on horseback set in the old west days, a carved West Coast painting in wood (a gift) and a very special piece called "birch bark" biting done by a woman who is now passed. Birch bark bitings usually depict insects or designs in nature and are made by folding the birch bark and biting into it until you have a design. This kind of work is extremely rare and I feel blessed to have such a piece. I'm finding the natural light is already much reduced since the heat of the summer has ended and I've taken these photos very late at night so my apologies for the quality of them.
African women with baskets |
Birch bark biting with floral design |
Print of a detailed pencil drawing |
3. Do you have a favorite artist or artists and do you have a favorite piece of art?
I have favourite artists who are well known and long gone such as Monet and Vincent Van Gogh. I also like Gustav Klimpt for the use of gold leaf in some of his works (The Kiss, Portrait of Adele Bloch-Bauer). I love the works of these famous artists and others but in my own home my favourite piece is the Birch Bark Biting I have.
Woman with a Parasol, Monet |
The Kiss, Gustav Klimpt |
Cafe Terrace at Night, Van Gogh |
4. Home décor can be art. When you bought things for your home did you plan out the décor or did it all just fall together. Was there a theme?
I started projects way back in August 2022 and kept a record then (see the link) for my own interest and review. I don't actually enjoy doing many of these projects and I don't go about it very methodically. It often takes me many weeks, even months to do a small project. It's taking me forever to do all the little jobs I have on my list. I find that it takes much longer in a smaller home to do the work because there is no where to put anything when you are trying to do a project and you constantly have to move and remove things. It can be quite a challenge at times and also physically tiring because a lot of the items are heavy. There were also many weeks where I was very tired, or in pain, or both, due to several long term health issues.
But at long last I'm starting to see and feel, the positive results of the changes I've been making and I'm happy with them. I still have a ways to go before I'm finished. There are projects in several rooms: living room (put up curtain rods), dining room (install the light fixture), main bathroom (do something about the toilet). I've decluttered a lot and I've got lots of items in bags which need to be dropped off at a charity. I'm collecting as much as possible so it can be dropped off at one time rather than here and there. I also still have a lot of paper to shred though it's mostly sorted and put in different piles. These are the main outstanding jobs. I have other job ideas in my August 2022 list but they could be considered 'nice to complete' rather than strictly necessary.
I plan to look into getting the master bathroom tub replaced with a walk in shower once I've completed the above items. The tub replacement would have to be done by the professionals. I also plan to undertake 2 reupholstery projects myself. It will be my first time doing this type of work and I've studied one of the jobs on Youtube before deciding to tackle it. The other job I can figure out myself and I've starting collecting what I need for it.
Here is a list of projects I've completed so far in 2023.
This post summarizes my projects so I can look back later and see what I've done and when I did them. It also serves to show why I haven't been on line very much.
I'm sorry I haven't had the time or energy to keep up with blogs but now and then I try to read your posts. I don't seem to be able to do my work and blog at the same time. The projects weigh me down and interfere with other plans. If I go ahead with other plans, the projects don't get done.
I think once I've cleared away the 'stuff' and finished a few of the next projects, I'll feel a sense of 'freedom' and a weight lifted off my shoulders. There are lots of things I want to do besides decluttering, reorganizing and DIYs and I'm looking forward to the day....hopefully sooner rather than later if my energy holds.
If you have time, I'd love to hear how you cope with DIYs and projects and whether you too find they interfere with your social media activities, and blogging in particular.
Hello friends and fellow bloggers,
I hope you are doing well. It snowed again and has been quite cold since Thursday or so. We had a big dump of snow on Saturday night so I've kept indoors and worked away on decluttering.
I made excellent progress over the past few days and got to sort out a lot of smaller nooks and crannies.
All month long I've been participating in something called a daily declutter challenge. The challenge is to let go of at least one item each day so the decluttering habit is formed and it doesn't take hours to accomplish. I have a lot of small items to get rid of because I'm down to the fine-tuning of the major decluttering project I've been working on for awhile. In the fine-tuning stage, it takes me a lot longer to go through every area of clutter and make the decisions as to what to do with things. I tend to collect a lot of paper items and a lot of little things that don't seem to 'fit' into any category of items, a hodge podge, if you will.
I've been surprised to find so much junk in all the places that I decluttered. I suppose it's understandable since some of these small areas haven't seen the light of day for decades. Literally. Anyway the month will end in a few days and I'm trying to get as much done as possible. The below items are much of what I've offloaded since Friday.
I've been decluttering something every day this month but I've also been crocheting so I can have a break from the task. Thursday night I ran out of yarn for the blanket I'm making and I'll need time to go to the craft store to buy at least one more ball to finish the project.
I haven't had time to delve into the books I picked up recently at the library or to finish listening to the audible Spare.
Hello friends and fellow bloggers,
I hope all is well with you. I have been super busy and not able to blog much or visit your blogs very often. I continue to have issues leaving comments on many blogs but when I can leave one without difficulty, I do. I'm not sure if you too are having problems leaving a comment for me because I have noticed that there are very few comments left on the majority of my blogs in this new year. It's quite possible that it is simply because I haven't been able to leave comments for you. If you have been experiencing any difficulties leaving a comment for me, please do send me an email and let me know. Follow the link at the Blogger Profile page (you may need to click on the 3 lines/dots at top left of the blog).
The weather here has been frightful. I've been anticipating an early Spring but instead we seem to be having winter over and over. The forecast was for snow on Saturday and quite a lot of it (up to 1 foot or 30 centimetres depending on where one lives in the city). I was very surprised to go for late afternoon walk on Wednesday and find myself under snowfall. It was also quite chilly. Fortunately I recently purchased a puffer coat to keep my legs warm in cold weather and I was able to use it. It's already paid for itself in the 2 weeks I had it after buying it on sale. I do have a faux fur coat which is very warm too but I cannot wear it when it's raining so I bought the puffer coat for those occasions. I took these photos after it stopped snowing and on my way back from the library.
As I write this post I'm getting very annoyed at yet another blogger problem I've been experiencing lately. Whenever I go to edit and tonight, when I go to add photos, a new page comes up called "Post Edit" and it doesn't have any buttons and from that page I can do absolutely nothing except read what I've already written. Is anyone else having this experience or know what to do about it? In the last 6 months I've had so many problems with Blogger compared to all the previous years of blogging with absolutely no issues whatsoever. I didn't figure out the issue but I found a way to work around it. I have to use Google Chrome rather than Safari and that is helping the site to do what it is supposed to do. Sometimes I can leave comments too when I use Google Chrome.
I'm beginning to think it may be time to move onto another platform. Alas, it won't be anytime soon because there are a lot of other things competing for attention: garden plans, family needs, household organizations and do it yourself projects, technology needs and health management. There is never a dull moment these days, is there? I know everyone else is dealing with most of the same things.
My cousin was visiting from Alberta and we had been planning for long to get together to celebrate her birthday. I haven't seen her since before Covid. Unfortunately she came down with a bad cold and the next day I did too. So she and her sister dropped by and we had a very quick visit and exchanged gifts. We're hoping to have a proper visit in the summer.
While I have been convalescing I started a new crochet afghan. This one is very large as it's meant to be a proper blanket for someone tall to snuggle up in. I found some of the ones I was making were simply not long enough even for me, a shortie. I like them to cover the feet and all the way up to the neck.
This is about 75% complete. The yarn colour is variegated and sold as you see it. |
An example of small bits I've been storing - 22 items now in trash. |
It was a real treat to go to a restaurant on Monday night. I had so many errands to run and I didn't want to make a late dinner so I opted to go to a local Vietnamese restaurant.
This dinner consists of pork brochette, roll dip, crepes and fried rice and though it was a tad over done it was still very delicious. (Click on each photo to enlarge).
I also made a library run. I picked up these three books which came up early on my hold request. I'm still working on 2 other books. I hope I can finish them all before someone else makes a request for them. That's always the challenge with popular books.
Pot roast, cabbage, carrots, onion and potatoes with gravy. |
Chicken (cooked in IP) served with roasted fries topped with chili, green salad. |
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