Friday, March 22, 2019

Update

Thank you everyone for your comments, thoughts, prayers and questions. This post will update on the recent information I shared here.

I made the journey from Vancouver to Grande Prairie, Alberta to attend the funeral of my cousin's son who was pallbearer at my late mother's funeral almost 2 years ago. He had been in hospital since around Christmas after finishing chemotherapy and radiation and passed away on March 8th, 2019 at the age of 46 years of age.

There were a great many people at the funeral and his work mates and friends were a big part of the funeral services which was nice.  I was able to visit briefly with so many relatives most of whom had travelled from various places in the northern parts of British Columbia and Alberta.

It took about 17 hours by car to drive to Grande Prairie from Vancouver (see the map for the route north which I'v marked in black ink).  My brother and I left last Thursday evening about 9 p.m. We arrived at our destination at approximately 2 p.m. the next day.  We lost an hour due to the time change. After the funeral, reception and cemetery service we drove about 5 hours southeast to Edmonton where we spent three days resting and visiting with one of our cousins.

While in Edmonton we found out an uncle is now suffering from dementia & has recently been admitted to a long term care facility.  We went to find him and had a lovely visit.  I  was surprised to find him very cheerful and talkative. I'm grateful we had such a nice visit as we do not know if we will have a chance to see him again before the inevitable occurs. His memory was fairly good while we were present.  He even remembered just how long he was in the facility (3 days) and that he'd been transferred from another institution.  The next day we were invited by another cousin to visit for a barbecue dinner. We actually saw him at the funeral but he is now home for the next half a year since work breaks up every year in Spring and recommences in the Fall.  After dinner and a brief visit with his family, we started the long 13 hour return journey home leaving at 7 p.m. and arriving home at 7 a.m. (8 a.m. in Alberta).

The black line on the map below shows our journey to Grande Prairie. The blue line shows our side journey to Edmonton and the portion back home to Vancouver. Most of the photos were taken through the car window so they are not the best.  But they will give you some idea of the geography and weather during the trip.  You can click on any photo to enlarge.


A photo taken as we pass through Jasper National Park.

Signage as we take short cut to Grande Prairie through Grande Cache.

Some stretches of the road you can see miles ahead and it's flat.

Then you come to this view of the mountains.

It was early morning through here between 6-7 a.m.



On the outskirts of Grande Prairie the land flattens and you find a lot of this kind of equipment since it's oil and farming country.

Entering the City of Grande Prairie. In my view it isn't a very pretty city but has had tremendous growth over the last few decades.

A rather nice looking college and city library.

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While we were in the north the weather warmed up considerably. 
When we got back to Vancouver the weather was even warmer with near summer temperatures.
However the forecast for the next while is a bit of rain. 
I need to get out in the garden as this year I have an allotment in addition to my balcony garden which means twice the work for me.  Hopefully I'll be able to grow a lot of vegetables to eat over the summer.

 
Now that I'm home again I'm also hoping to resume my travel photos from my recent travels to Paris and Nairobi. 
I may also do one more post from my most recent trip to share a few more photos of the area.
Joining in with Skywatch Friday

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wishing you all a wonderful weekend.

15 comments:

eileeninmd said...

Hello, I am sorry for the loss of your cousin. I am glad you were able to visit with your relatives. The views from your drive were beautiful. I love seeing the mountains. I heard about the warm temps in Washington state, it is like summer there now. Beautiful photos. Enjoy your day, have a happy weekend!

Joanne Noragon said...

I am sad for the reason of the trip, but thank you for the lovely tour!

Yogi♪♪♪ said...

If there is a good think about funerals it is the chance to visit with relatives and others you have not seen in a long time.
I love all your photos. Canada is on my bucket list. Such a great and wonderful country.

Spare Parts and Pics said...

Very sorry to hear about your cousin's son. Looks like you passed through some beautiful country traveling to the funeral.

jabbott said...

Very sorry for the loss of your cousin this is very sad news xxx

Rhodesia said...

A long sad trip in not ideal conditions, but wow what fabulous photos. Snow makes for great photography and beauty. Take care and have a good weekend Diane

KB said...

Sorry for your loss. The photos are fabulous

Mari said...

I'm sorry to hear about this trip under sad circumstances, but thankful you had a beautiful drive.

Red said...

I'm sorry for the loss of your cousin's son. Cancer isn't choosy. You went through some awesomely beautiful country at the most beautiful time of year.

Al said...

My condolences for your loss.

Dianna said...

Penny, thank you so much for the update on how things went when you and your brother traveled to be with family during the funeral time of your cousin. And I'm glad to know that you also were able to visit with other family members and rest up a bit before making the long trip back home. I'm really glad to know that you were able to visit with the uncle who is in the long term care facility. Rest up a bit from your travels, my friend. xo

shayndel said...

It's so sad to lose a family member at any age, and your cousin was so young, I feel for you and send my condolences for you and your family. Hope you can rest up after the trip and have peace in your heart. I noticed your header, love the cherry blossoms! May God's peace and comfort be with you and all your family. Blessings and much love to you Joyful, ♡

Pamela M. Steiner said...

Again, my sincere condolences on the loss of your cousin. Cancer strikes way too many of our sons and daughters. I lost my own son to cancer almost 5 years ago. He was 41. I know your presence there was very comforting to the family. That was quite a trip! Love the pictures of the terrain, mountains, snow, etc. Amazing beauty! So glad you could make it. Sounds like it was a very special trip in every way. God bless you all.

Jeanie said...

Oh Penny, you've been through such a great lot. I'm sure you are exhausted and I know your being there was important for all of you. But at least there was gorgeous scenery along the way -- that takes my breath away.

I'm so glad spring is coming to your world. New life and beauty is on the way.

Charlene N. K. said...

Sorry for your loss. But those beautiful snow-capped mountains look comforting and fortifying.

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